Don’t Throw in the Towel!
If everything has gone wrong and life feels like more than you can handle right now, don’t throw in the towel. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do isn’t taking action – it’s just sticking around.
Transitions
Navigating life’s major turning points and the uncomfortable time between chapters. These posts look into the realities of growing older, the complex grief of completed missions, and the uncertainty of starting over. If you are standing at a crossroads or trying to figure out what the next version of your life looks like, you are not alone here.
Are You Slowing Down as You Get Older? (And Why It Feels Good)
I walked to 7-Eleven twice in one hour, just for the coffee. A few years ago, that would have seemed like inefficient time management. Today, it was a precious, unhurried choice. Are you noticing your need to rush starting to ease?
More Goodbyes Than Hellos
My student of 20 years, my boss’s father, my former roommates – the list is growing. As I prepare to move back to the UK, I’m realizing there’s less future than there used to be. But seeing other people’s chapters close is a blunt reminder not to waste what’s left of mine.
When Your Mission Ends: Finding Purpose After Loss (人生の目的)
In feudal Japan, a samurai without a master became a ronin. If you feel lost after a major life change, this ancient mindset can help you rebuild.
The Quiet Panic of Not Having Enough Money
I have lived out of convenience stores for 20 years. I have less, but I owe nothing. This is a look at the quiet dignity of living tight, without the crushing weight of modern debt.
Living Abroad vs Returning Home: Belonging, Duty, and the Niken
I am weighing up a return to the UK to care for my father. But a clash over a motorcycle reminded me of the difference between going home and going backwards.
When Love Isn’t Enough (When You Can’t Be Everything They Need)
I watched my wife leave for work in tears and wished I had the money to stop her pain. But I was just a teacher. This is what happens when love isn’t enough.
We Got Divorced But Kept Living Together: What That Taught Me About Love
We got divorced, signed the papers, then went home and kept living together for years. Here is what staying in the same house taught me about letting go.
The Modest Dreams We Can’t Afford (And the Selves We Leave Behind in Midlife)
I am 57 and I have never bought a new vehicle. It is a modest dream I cannot afford. But admitting it helped me reconnect with the person I used to be.