The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

The Relief of No Longer Being in the Game

Watercolor of Peaceful empty park bench at golden hour with book and coffee cup resting on it (Google AI)

Well-meaning friends say I’ll “find the right woman.” But the pressure to pursue romance has lifted, and I don’t miss it. I feel relieved for no longer being in a game I never particularly enjoyed playing.

How about you? Are you a player?

Finding Balance in Alone Time

Rear view of a man sitting on a lookout point overlooking a forest landscape.

Sometimes the universe delivers exactly what we need: uninterrupted time with ourselves. Today my boss unexpectedly canceled work, leaving me alone with farming tasks and blessed silence. By day’s end, I’d completely forgotten which side of the bed I’d woken up on. How…

What’s Your Quality Time These Days?

7-Eleven convenience store

For me, quality time starts before dawn with a 4 AM walk to 7-Eleven for coffee and groceries. Unhurried, undisturbed, just quiet that works for us introverts. This is my happy place. What moments make up your quality time?