The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

The Thing You’ve Never Done (And the Self You Left Behind)

A guy comfortably stands in a car showroom looking at the nice cars.

What’s the normal thing you’ve never been able to do that you still think about?
Not the yacht. Not the mansion. I’m talking about the ordinary thing that many people take for granted. The thing that would make your everyday life different in some quiet way.

When Does Devotion Become Obsession? (And How Would You Even Know?)

A woman sitting at a desk devoted to her computer work

It’s 3 AM and I’m awake again. Not because I’m anxious or worried—because my mind is buzzing with blog tasks. Is this devotion, or is this becoming something else? I’m thinking about whether I need to shower before going to 7-Eleven. When did that become a question?

What’s Actually Worth Keeping?

Pairs of shoes in entryway with open door and sunlight coming in.

Good memories from your twenties. That worn toolbox that still works. Dreams you’re building. Stuff you just haven’t dealt with yet. What are you holding onto and why?

The Mirror Doesn’t Lie (But We Sometimes Do)

Watercolor painting of an elderly man standing in front of a mirror, observing his reflection in deep thought.

Last week, walking past a shop window, I glimpsed someone I didn’t immediately recognize—gray-haired, lined, slightly stooped. It took a second to realize I was looking at myself. That stranger looked older than the person I see each morning.

What Daily Practice Changed Your Life? (All About You #2)

Morning journaling scene with a watercolor notebook, pen, and cup of tea.

Welcome back to our “All About You” series. Today’s focus: What daily practice genuinely changed your life? Not the Instagram-worthy routines or productivity guru recommendations. The real stuff. That one thing you started doing that actually stuck and helped you…

Still Learning Balance After 50 (What’s Working So Far)

An elderly person practicing yoga in a peaceful park in watercolor

Most of us spent our first 50 years mastering a complicated juggling act—family, career, finances, social obligations. But what if balance in the second half of life isn’t about keeping all the plates spinning? Here are some thoughts on finding your own balance in this chapter…

Can We Be Too Loyal?

Mac Studio and Studio Display in Apple store window. Bangkok, Thailand

Can loyalty hold you back? After years as a devoted Windows user and smartphone enthusiast, I’m questioning whether my tech loyalty limited my growth. A Microsoft forum ban made me wonder: when does devotion become limitation? Have you ever been too loyal for your own good?