The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

When You Can’t Be Everything They Need

Watercolor painting of a strong tree with green leaves, a cracked stone path leading to it, and a colorful sunset in the background.

Have you ever loved someone, tried your best, stayed loyal—and still watched them leave because you couldn’t give them what they needed? Sometimes what people genuinely need doesn’t match what you can genuinely provide—no matter how much you both care.

The Relief of No Longer Being in the Game

Watercolor of Peaceful empty park bench at golden hour with book and coffee cup resting on it (Google AI)

Well-meaning friends say I’ll “find the right woman.” But the pressure to pursue romance has lifted, and I don’t miss it. I feel relieved for no longer being in a game I never particularly enjoyed playing.

How about you? Are you a player?

Are You Too Comfortable? A Question To Consider

A farmworker strolls through vast fields, carrying trays of seedlings. Working hard, but peacefully alone, in watercolor.

Is your comfort actually avoidance? I thought I was serving well in Japan, but a growing spiritual tension is forcing me to ask: When does easy service become a selfish way to dodge a harder, truer calling?

The Family Outsider: When You Love Them But Live Differently

A guy is talking online with parents

Do you ever feel like you love your family but operate on a completely different frequency? A photo from McDonald’s—my sister and 85-year-old father sharing junk food—stayed with me in an unexpected way. I could see the effects of time and caring for everything alone since Mum..

It’s Okay to Be Broken (Sometimes That’s When Love Looks Most Real)

Graphic representation of a broken heart, expressing themes of pain and loss.

We all break sometimes. Relationships end, dreams dissolve, and futures change in ways we never planned. If you’re feeling shattered by someone’s leaving, by someone’s choice to build their life elsewhere, you’re not alone. Sometimes being broken is proof that what you had was real.

The Quiet Art of Checking In With Yourself

mature man concentrated on styling hair with hairdryer

Today’s toilet paper run shouldn’t have been noteworthy. Yet between my apartment and the shop, I caught myself doing it again—that internal check-in that’s become familiar since 419 days ago. Am I dressed appropriately? Did I acknowledge neighbors properly? Do you…

How Dreams Change as You Get Older

A watercolor depiction of a business vision showcasing a man gazing at a colorful urban skyline.

How do dreams change as you get older? From helicopter pilot ambitions to wanting time with aging parents – exploring how what we want shifts with age and experience.