The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

How Do You Know You Are Mentally Healthy?

Hand choosing happy smile face wooden block

After my wife of twenty years left for America, I found myself grabbing the wrong jeans from my closet—a simple error that made me question everything. When external stability masks internal turbulence, how do you recognize mental health? What anchors you these days?

Lost in a Care Home – Dementia

Senior man comforting his wife with dementia

The last clear sign: my mum was feeding the dog from the dinner table—something she’d never done. Now, she sits silently in a care home, clutching a toy. How do we navigate the slow, painful goodbye when dementia turns a loved one into a stranger?

Five Basics I Keep Forgetting: What Actually Keeps Me Steady

middle-aged man relaxing at home listening to music

There are five non-negotiable daily basics that keep this old dog functioning well—sleep, movement, connection, nourishment, and stillness. I’m honest about the challenge of finding balance after 50 and the reality of 7-Eleven living.

Late Bites and Action Flicks: Wisdom from Unexpected Places

An apple and glass of water in the kitchen at night.

Simple changes made farming in brutal heat manageable—different sauce, natural onigiri, nothing past 8 PM. My body felt more efficient, my mind calmer in the mornings. Body basics might be the foundation for mental peace. What small change could help you?