It’s All Relative (But Is That Comfort or Cop-Out?)
Cycling to work in the pouring rain at 56 felt both liberating and slightly absurd at the same time.
JapanLife
Observations from two decades of Japan life, from the nuances of teaching and farming to the comfort of a small home and everyday routines.
The Quiet Practice of Being Grateful
Some mornings at 4am, walking to 7-Eleven, I just quietly acknowledge that I have enough today.
Chasing Dreams vs. Chasing Money (And Why I’m Still Figuring It Out)
At 3am I wasn’t stressed. I was awake because I’m still addicted to hope at nearly sixty.
Finding Balance in Alone Time
Even with people you like, there’s a hidden cost to constantly adjusting yourself for others.
The Art of Checking In With Yourself
For 20 years, my wife was my reality check. Now I have to be my own mirror.
After 20 Years in Japan, My Japanese Is Still Pretty Basic (And That’s Complicated)
Twenty years in Japan, a 567-day Duolingo streak, and I still panic at the tax office.
Something I’ve Been Noticing About Being Busy
I caught myself rushing through my morning walk, already calculating when I could be productive.
The Power of Small Wins: Celebrating Life’s Quiet Triumphs
We ruin good moments by saying “that was nice, but…” and immediately worrying about tomorrow.
The Unexpected Gifts of Growing Older: Finding Joy, Freedom & Wisdom
Inside, we’re all young souls looking through older eyes. The wrinkles are just the mask.
