The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

What If the Missing Piece Isn’t Another Strategy?

Hands laying foundation with light streaming from above, to signify "building with God"

I’ve spent thousands of hours at this computer. Different blogs, posts, endless tweaking. But something feels blocked. At 57, I’ve never bought a new vehicle. The effort is real—so what’s missing? Kyle Mechlinski’s video hit me: What if we’re building without the right foundation?

What Do You Hope Heaven Is Like?

An Angel standing in Heaven

I find myself thinking about what comes next more than I used to. Not from fear, but from genuine curiosity about the greatest mystery we all face. What happens when this life ends and whatever follows begins?
What do you hope heaven—or whatever comes after—is actually like?

Are You Trying to Turn Your Life Around? I Am!

Watercolor Signpost Under Pastel Sky

Do you ever feel like you’re settling for “good enough” when something inside still hungers for more? At nearly 57, this old dog is finally admitting something. I’m trying to turn my life around. There’s this persistent voice asking, “Is this all there is?” Maybe you hear that voice…

Chasing Dreams vs. Chasing Money (And Why I’m Still Figuring It Out)

Man planting to make money

Last night, thanks to a mosquito and my overactive mind, I managed about an hour of sleep. But instead of feeling exhausted, my brain exploded with blog ideas. At nearly 60, lying there energized by possibility, I realized something startling: I’m addicted to hope. Sound familiar?

How Dreams Change as You Get Older

A watercolor depiction of a business vision showcasing a man gazing at a colorful urban skyline.

How do dreams change as you get older? From helicopter pilot ambitions to wanting time with aging parents – exploring how what we want shifts with age and experience.

How Do You Know You Are Mentally Healthy?

Hand choosing happy smile face wooden block

After my wife of twenty years left for America, I found myself grabbing the wrong jeans from my closet—a simple error that made me question everything. When external stability masks internal turbulence, how do you recognize mental health? What anchors you these days?

Lost in a Care Home – Dementia

Senior man comforting his wife with dementia

The last clear sign: my mum was feeding the dog from the dinner table—something she’d never done. Now, she sits silently in a care home, clutching a toy. How do we navigate the slow, painful goodbye when dementia turns a loved one into a stranger?