What Does Your Ideal Reset Day Look Like?
We often treat things that drain us as necessary, but things that restore us as optional. Here is how to identify your ideal “reset day” and protect it like a meeting.
Farming
The dirt-under-the-fingernails reality of part-time farming in Japan, wrestling with the seasons, and the quiet satisfaction of working the soil.
When You Get Good at Things You Never Felt Passionate About
I used to think passion had to come first. But after 505 days of Japanese practice, I realized I had it backwards. Here is why competence creates passion, not the other way around.
It’s All Relative (But Is That Comfort or Cop-Out?)
Yesterday, I cycled to work in the pouring rain. At 56, it felt both liberating and slightly absurd. Part of me felt like a happy kid. Another part wondered if this is “failure to launch.”
Finding Balance in Alone Time
Even with friends, there is a hidden cost to constantly “adjusting” ourselves. Solitude is the only time we can stop performing. Here is why I crave the silence of the farm.
How Do You Balance Your Time When A Passion Won’t Let Go?
After five hours of digging sweet potatoes, I did not rest. I went straight to the computer. It is not discipline. It is a pull. Here is how I handle a passion that refuses to let go.