When You Get Good at Things You Never Felt Passionate About
After 505 days of Japanese practice, I realised I had passion and competence completely backwards.
Aging, Purpose, and the Thoughts We Rarely Admit
What does it mean to be aging wisely? Here are reflections on the unexpected gifts, physical realities, and quiet freedoms of growing older without pretending we aren’t.
After 505 days of Japanese practice, I realised I had passion and competence completely backwards.
Covered in mosquito bites at 4:30pm, my boss asked for one more thing. I nearly said no.
At 3am I wasn’t stressed. I was awake because I’m still addicted to hope at nearly sixty.
By most standards, I failed. Living paycheque to paycheque at 57. But I don’t feel like one.
We ruin good moments by saying “that was nice, but…” and immediately worrying about tomorrow.
Inside, we’re all young souls looking through older eyes. The wrinkles are just the mask.
The urge to rush is easing. And honestly, that second trip to 7-Eleven was worth it.