The Family Outsider: When You Love Them But Live Differently
A photo of my dad and sister at McDonald’s reminded me I’m the family outsider. And that’s okay.
It’s All Relative (But Is That Comfort or Cop-Out?)
Cycling to work in the pouring rain at 56 felt both liberating and slightly absurd at the same time.
What’s Your Sanctuary?
Sanctuary is the feeling of exhaling after holding your breath all day. Where’s yours?
The Quiet Practice of Being Grateful
Some mornings at 4am, walking to 7-Eleven, I just quietly acknowledge that I have enough today.
The Guilt of Saying No (And Why It Gets Easier After 50)
Covered in mosquito bites at 4:30pm, my boss asked for one more thing. I nearly said no.
Chasing Dreams vs. Chasing Money (And Why I’m Still Figuring It Out)
At 3am I wasn’t stressed. I was awake because I’m still addicted to hope at nearly sixty.
The Long Road: What Five Years of Breast Cancer Taught Me About Life After 50
Before cancer, I lived like I was immortal. Facing death taught me to stop wasting time.
Finding Balance in Alone Time
Even with people you like, there’s a hidden cost to constantly adjusting yourself for others.
The Art of Checking In With Yourself
For 20 years, my wife was my reality check. Now I have to be my own mirror.
