The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

Never Too Old for a Good Tune

Cool bearded old hipster man holding skateboard wearing earbuds.

Ever catch yourself being grateful for music? I’ve been diving back into my collection lately—thankful for how it flips a switch when life gets overwhelming or thoughts spiral. What’s your go-to music genre when nothing else seems to do it?

What’s Your Quality Time These Days?

7-Eleven convenience store

For me, quality time starts before dawn with a 4 AM walk to 7-Eleven for coffee and groceries. Unhurried, undisturbed, just quiet that works for us introverts. This is my happy place. What moments make up your quality time?

I Secretly Want a Makeover (Don’t Tell the Pack)

Hands, trimmer and mature man in salon getting haircut

They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but what about a fresh coat? Recently, I’ve been mulling something I rarely admit: I secretly want a makeover. Not dramatic—just something to shake the dust off and tidy me up a bit. Sound familiar? Got any tips?

Slow Beats Fast: Finding Peace in Life’s Slower Lanes

Dog handler is walking slowly with his obedient Magyar Vizsla dog by his side

In recent years, I’ve stepped away from the relentless pursuit of speed, reassessing what brings fulfillment. After significant life changes, I made a few adjustments. What pace guides your days now, and did you switch gears for any reason?

Five Basics I Keep Forgetting: What Actually Keeps Me Steady

middle-aged man relaxing at home listening to music

There are five non-negotiable daily basics that keep this old dog functioning well—sleep, movement, connection, nourishment, and stillness. I’m honest about the challenge of finding balance after 50 and the reality of 7-Eleven living.

Late Bites and Action Flicks: Wisdom from Unexpected Places

An apple and glass of water in the kitchen at night.

Simple changes made farming in brutal heat manageable—different sauce, natural onigiri, nothing past 8 PM. My body felt more efficient, my mind calmer in the mornings. Body basics might be the foundation for mental peace. What small change could help you?