The Thoughts We Keep to Ourselves

Why I Tell AI Everything (And Don’t Really Care Who’s Listening)

A watercolor illustration depicting an open book and abstract brain with wires and data streams gracefully flowing out and connecting to an AI symbol.

Ten or so years ago, I was paranoid about privacy. Who was tracking me? What were they doing with my data? But along the way, something shifted. Maybe it’s just getting older—all that vigilance started feeling exhausting. I realized you’re either completely off the grid, or you’re on it.

When Does Devotion Become Obsession? (And How Would You Even Know?)

A woman sitting at a desk devoted to her computer work

It’s 3 AM and I’m awake again. Not because I’m anxious or worried—because my mind is buzzing with blog tasks. Is this devotion, or is this becoming something else? I’m thinking about whether I need to shower before going to 7-Eleven. When did that become a question?

What’s Actually Worth Keeping?

Pairs of shoes in entryway with open door and sunlight coming in.

Good memories from your twenties. That worn toolbox that still works. Dreams you’re building. Stuff you just haven’t dealt with yet. What are you holding onto and why?

What Daily Practice Changed Your Life? (All About You #2)

Morning journaling scene with a watercolor notebook, pen, and cup of tea.

Welcome back to our “All About You” series. Today’s focus: What daily practice genuinely changed your life? Not the Instagram-worthy routines or productivity guru recommendations. The real stuff. That one thing you started doing that actually stuck and helped you…

What Does Your Ideal Reset Day Look Like?

Watercolor illustration of older Asian woman doing Yoga

This morning, after working hard on the farm, I came home feeling completely balanced. Physically tired but mentally clear, ready to blog without restlessness. It got me thinking: we often know what helps us feel centered, but how often do we actually protect those things?

Still Learning Balance After 50 (What’s Working So Far)

An elderly person practicing yoga in a peaceful park in watercolor

Most of us spent our first 50 years mastering a complicated juggling act—family, career, finances, social obligations. But what if balance in the second half of life isn’t about keeping all the plates spinning? Here are some thoughts on finding your own balance in this chapter…